6 Sex Mistakes Men Make
Reference: http://men.webmd.com/features/6-sex-mistakes-men-make
Hey
guys, think you know everything there is to know about having sex with
women? That erotic encyclopedia you carry around in your head may
contain a lot of basic errors and omissions about women's sexuality --
errors that can lead to sex mistakes.
That's because -- after learning the facts of life -- most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are.
Experience
may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.
Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What She Wants
Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they've done with other women. But women aren't all the same.That applies not only to sexual predilections, but also to relationships,
she says. "There are women who can have no-strings-attached sex, and
women who can get attached very easily, and then everyone in between."
Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All She Needs
Some women can't have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator.
Think
of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use
vibrators together.
Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women
Paget says there tends to be a "huge disconnect" between men and women in the ways that sex feels good."When
a man has intercourse with a woman, and his penis goes into her body,
that sensation is so off the charts for most men, they cannot imagine
that it isn't feeling the same way for her," Paget says. "It couldn't
be further from the truth."
The inside of the vagina is
probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. Also, deep
thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end. If the penis is
too long, "it feels like you're getting punched in the stomach," Paget
says. "It makes you feel nauseous."
Sex Mistake No. 4: You Know Your Way Around a Woman's Anatomy
Most guys know generally what a clitoris is and where to find it. That's not to say that they really understand it.More than 30 years ago, at the start of the "sexual revolution," a best-selling book called the Joy of Sex
got Americans hip to the orgasmic importance of the clitoris. But the
belief that women must be able to orgasm from vaginal penetration
stubbornly persists.
Men also lack information about how to touch it and how sensitive it is, Taormino says.
A
touch that's bliss for one woman may feel like nothing special, or may
even be painful for someone else. Some prefer indirect stimulation.
How can you find out how she likes to be touched? Try asking her.
Sex Mistake No. 5: Wet = Turned On
Guys sometimes get hung up if a woman doesn't get slippery enough for easy penetration. Don't worry about it."I think there's a myth that if you're turned on, you're wet," Taormino says. Not necessarily.
Some
women tend to get wetter than others, and how much natural lubrication
a woman has can change from day to day. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle, and it's subject to influences like stress and medications.
Sex Mistake No. 6: Silence Is Golden
A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex, but unless you speak up, your partner has to guess what's doing it for you and what isn't.If you're respectful about it, a woman who wants to please you will probably appreciate some directions.
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