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Enough is Enough... How Many is Too Many?

#0, by matrixone05, 21 May 2011 10:50 PM


Here's another borrowed topic.... 

If you're looking for a SERIOUS relationship (not just a fling), does it matter how many partners your mate has had sex with?


If you ask them and they tell you a number that you're not cool with does that influence your decision on whether or not you will continue to date him/her?

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#1, by brnepanther, 23 May 2011 09:09 PM

No one's a saint and everyone has sinned. Should we allow someone's past to deter us from being their future? Hmm ...

I'd be more concerned of his health and if he has any children. I'd also care more about the man he is today. Not the man he was years ago.

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#2, by matrixone05, 24 May 2011 03:04 AM

Here is where excessive partners matter to me... it makes me wonder if you are relationship material. If you can't last more than a few months in a relationship... why is that? If you haven't been in many relationships and are having random, meaningless sex... are you even relationship material?I just wonder about a bigger picture.

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#3, by brnepanther, 24 May 2011 03:40 PM

I think sometimes you have to go through periods in life of things that you don't want to truly determine what you do want. With that said, Matrix, what if he wanted a long and lasting relationship with you because he was tired of the things that happened in his past? Would you comply?

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#4, by matrixone05, 24 May 2011 10:43 PM

I wouldn't rule him out immediately, which is why there is a getting to know you process.. hopefully all of us grows as we mature... so if I was comfortable that the past was just that... yes I'd give him a chance.

I think sometimes you have to go through periods in life of things that you don't want to truly determine what you do want. With that said, Matrix, what if he wanted a long and lasting relationship with you because he was tired of the things that happened in his past? Would you comply?

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#5, by mykeldangelo, 27 May 2011 01:20 AM

YES

i just need to know her pattern

if she is sleeping with alotta (100+) with most being unprotected

i need to know that


coz i aint put'n my woody in harms way

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#6, by brnepanther, 27 May 2011 11:16 PM

YES
i just need to know her pattern
if she is sleeping with alotta (100+) with most being unprotected
i need to know that

coz i aint put'n my woody in harms way

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So if she slept with 100+ men and used protection at all times, you'd give her a chance?

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#7, by mykeldangelo, 29 May 2011 01:37 PM


So if she slept with 100+ men and used protection at all times, you'd give her a chance?

-brnepanther


YES but I gotta believe that she used protection every time


and if she slips up and tell me about an almost pregnancy the deal is OFF



i really dont care but i do...........safety 1st

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#8, by pt109rickusa, 29 May 2011 03:58 PM

It would not make me any difference as long as I loved her, but if she was near Wilt Chamberlain's numbers of 10,000 or more then I'd prefer a 40 year old virgin.

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#9, by matrixone05, 29 May 2011 09:51 PM

Too funny...

It would not make me any difference as long as I loved her, but if she was near Wilt Chamberlain's numbers of 10,000 or more then I'd prefer a 40 year old virgin.

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