What is off limits sexually within a marriage?

Question posted elsewhere..."My husband and I had an understanding before we got married that I don’t do certain “sex acts” (God didn’t intend for me to use my body for these things) Only loose women do these unnatural acts. Now, a year after marriage, he won’t leave it alone. He wants it even though we had a pact because all his friends are getting it. He says I’m being a bad wife? Am I? We hardly have sex anymore because of this."

My first comment:

Uh, what sexual act is she referring to? And why is he discussing his sex life with all his friends? Are all of his friends married? Because my understanding (from the men I've asked this question) is that you tell all with a random fling or someone you aren't serious about, but you leave what happens between you and your wife between you and your wife.

If you can't break your husband off with something special then why get married? The special stuff doesn't seem like something you just give to anyone, especially someone you don't plan on committing the rest of your life to. Her "loose" theory seems a little backwards.

That's just me; however, for the sake of this argument, if it was something that they both agreed to prior to marriage then he shouldn't try to switch it up after marriage ... regardless of who is or isn't getting it. He was satisfied with it until he heard his boys was getting it. *chuckles*

Panther, she still hasn't shown up to explain "what" the act is that she has a problem with.... 

Panther, she still hasn't shown up to explain "what" the act is that she has a problem with.... [image]

-matrixone05

It must not have been that important then.

But boy did she get a lot of comments... *whew

It must not have been that important then.

-brnepanther

But boy did she get a lot of comments... *whew

-matrixone05

*chuckles*

A few shots of patron is all this woman needs. She'd be so relaxed she'd probably do anything her hubby wants and then some. She can then blame it on the A a a a a a al cohol.

You are probably right... sad way to get there though... LOL! 

A few shots of patron is all this woman needs. She'd be so relaxed she'd probably do anything her hubby wants and then some. She can then blame it on the A a a a a a al cohol.

-pt109rickusa

LMAO!!!!!  She must be talking about that anal

LMAO!!!!!  She must be talking about that anal

-delon

Not true. There are many things that could turn a woman away.

Not true. There are many things that could turn a woman away.

-brnepanther

Yep and THAT can be one of them... lmbo!!!

To answer the question, there really isn't much that that I would turn my partner down on...

QQ

lol

To answer the question, there really isn't much that that I would turn my partner down on...
QQ
lol

-vibewitme2

*nods* You know where I'm going with this ... what is the "not much" you're referring to?

*nods* You know where I'm going with this ... what is the "not much" you're referring to?

-brnepanther

Nots him or myself...

* chuckles and goes out singing... "what you won't do... do for love... " *

LOL!!!

*nods* You know where I'm going with this ... what is the "not much" you're referring to?

-brnepanther

Nots him or myself... * chuckles and goes out singing... "what you won't do... do for love... " *

-vibewitme2

Popcorn no butter!

ROFLMBO!!  

Oooh Shyt

-1romierome1

Ya'll are silly.  BrnE... I can't categorically answer that question as it is on a person by person basis...

* gigglin' *